Excellent, or not at all

We are in the middle of a bathroom renovation. A simple project has turned into a nightmare.

Why?

The people we hired to do the job don’t believe in excellence.

Tradespeople sometimes try their luck with female couples. It is as if these men think my wife and I are females living in 1890 with little inclination to be in charge of anything other than a tapestry project.

The first worker turned up late each day, then told us he had run out of time to complete the project and didn’t come back.

He left a trail of destruction that is proving costly to correct.

Why isn’t excellence a given?

In an industry where people need a service like plumbing, demand is so high that we beg these people to come and help. We give them trust. They aren’t selling excellence, they are selling peace of mind.

The trouble is, not all of them deliver.

What does it take to be excellent?

There are a few key elements that make someone excellent:

  • consistency

  • pride in work

  • continuous self-improvement

  • clean and tidy approach (mental and physical space)

  • clear and timely communication

This needs to be taught in schools. It is vital. We are leaning towards a future where we will simply transact with other people for services (rather than big companies hiring many employees). This will let excellence float to the top.

Surround yourself with excellence and leave mediocrity behind

2023 My No Spend Year

I tried and failed to have a no spend year in 2022 as my why wasn’t big enough.

I am writing this on 31st December 2022 and fully committed to seeing my project through.

Well when I say project, it is more than a project, it is a burning desire to change the way I live my life.

I’m not forcing any of my family to do this with me, I would love it if some of the learning rubs off on them. But it isn’t something I need anyone else to change. It is a change I want for myself.

I sat down a week ago on Christmas Day, sick with pneumonia and surrounded by floor-to-celing presents (mainly for our kids). A wave of sadness hit me. Sadness combined with frustration and anger that my life was stuffed full of THINGS. Things I don’t feel I need or want to contribute to my family.

Society, marketing and social media try to persuade us that we need to have it all. The more I have, the more stressed I get and less I enjoy my day-to-day life.

My adhd and my depression are worse because of the stuff I surround myself with.

Enough.

I don’t need anything new. I don’t want to contribute to the relentless consumerism train.

I just know my life is going to richer by making do, mending and living a simpler life.

no spend year